Love ??? … OR Emotional Imbalance

Love _

Is not a random feeling that you can just develop by passing next to someone but it is a complex feeling process that develops over time and it grows with the seed of feelings is fed properly from both sides.

If you keep your feeling for someone you like and they do not respond well, after some time that feeling will fade away and you will begin your own journey of life, but in contrast if your loved one also show empathy to your your emotional state the bond between you begin to develop and becomes stronger over time.

Sometimes we like someone at the moment we call it love , just like we meet someone at party or a club we feel we begin to develop love for that person but its not actually love but a temporary state of mind in which you feel happy just for being with that particular person , in that short time our brain begin to release DOPAMINE which is a hormone of short term happiness. If we don’t get that person or after a short time we are around some other person our brain begin to erase and forget the person you were just happy with .

Seldom in life we meet people who are really nice to us but after a period we don’t even remember them. So, firstly we need to understand what actually love is to call someone loved one and to actually love someone.

For love to be successful and grow over time there are multiple factors that contribute to happiness and joy, just like the seed that was sown in the season with best of nutrition and environmental conditions brings the abundance of fruit.

Another important thing is the quality of seed, if the seed is not standardised no matter what the environmental conditions are provided it won’t grow well.

Therefore know what is LOVE, WHOM you love ? Do they actually care for your emotions ? Will it be fruitful?

Maybe it just an EMOTIONAL IMBALANCE due to hormonal spike that fades away with time.